My grandparents have always told me if I don't date now, they will never be there at my wedding, both grandmothers in fact. I've always laughed it off, for my paternal grandma, she already has 3 great-grandchildren, my maternal grandma has one, so nothing spectacular would come out even if I got married. Although it's been on my mind that maybe I need to fulfill their wishes before they pass, the least I could do, then I know, I just can't risk it, it's till death do us apart once we pen our names on the line. #NoKidding Once, my uncle told my uncle to cut down on high cholesterol and salty food because of her HBP, she merely replied in hokkien,"I'm only waiting for death, can't I eat what I want". That was just too much for me ... It's kinda true, she wakes up, go for a stroll, watch tv which she barely understands, she can't read both mandarin and english, the kids barely visit her, some times no one visits over the weekend......